ALEXIS LOVELL

''I personally don't see anything wrong in having fun if your single and the guy is single too.''

Miss Alexis Lovell, how are you? I've been loving forward to doing this interview for a while now, thanks for doing this. We've all heard the term 'Dark and Lovely', well you bring a completely new meaning to this. Since this site is not about just beauty I'm going to ask you a few questions to make sure you really have the brains I've been hearing about........

BWB - This site is about beauty and brains. We all know you got the beauty, so tell us what your doing with your life that proves you got the brains?
ALEXIS - I would say that my ambitions for the future is to finish my degree and go on to start my own PR company, I have thought about this for such along time but I think I would probably move to Holland and start it up there as I believe there is a market for me to work with unlike here, where there are so many so called PR companies.

BWB - Has this been your dreams since you was young?
ALEXIS - It has always been my dream to own and run my own business, it will give me so much satisfaction and pride to know that I have achieved my goals and doing something that I really love to do.

BWB - Can you see yourself doing anything else?
ALEXIS - Yes I have thought about it a lot and i actually plan to do it at one stage but I would love to have my own online magazine website and hopefully then go on to print. The main reason for the site is to help and encourage other young women who want to get into the world of modelling and media by giving advice and hopefully showing them the correct ways to get into the industry I think a lot more black girls need to realise if the want to be a model they don't have to go down the route of glamour modelling or some of these music video which really don't show them in a tasteful manner. Because it seems that this is the only way that they can get jobs, when it really isn't, hopefully with some funding backing me I would also love to be able to offer some girls free quality photo shoots to help them on their way as these can be very expensive and you really do pay for what you get.

BWB - Where do you want to be in the next 10 years?
ALEXIS - In ten years time I would like to find myself financially secure, running my business and still going strong, have at least 2 kids; 1 boy 1 girl and be happily married which am close to already, well the marriage part at least.
I would also like to get my fingers in the retail market I have been thinking about it a lot and seen shows on TV which makes me believe this could be a success, I would like to open up a tall and small retail shop around the UK, although it may start off as an online venture turning into something much larger. My heart goes out to people who are either very tall or really short and not always being able to find things to fit them like evening wear and sociable events even down to shoes. With them having to either shop in the children's section or get alterations to make items longer, when they can go direct and actually buy clothes and shoes that fit them.
My main obstacle with this is finding either a manufacture or company who will be able to supply me with the goods, but this is a venture which will take some long planning if I want it to be a success so all I say is watch this space.

BWB - I ’m sure you’ve had a few male friends, are you parent strict on you bring boyfriends home?
ALEXIS - When I was younger my mother was really strict about boyfriends and as I got older she settled down a bit but now am getting from her, when am I going to get married and move out the family home which I find rather funny, but me and my mum have a really good relationship now, I can talk to her about anything, which I think is really vital in having a good relationship with your parents.

One thing I can say that will never change with my mum she doesn't like me bring home different male friends I think she was thinking I was dating all of them but its worse now that am engaged its as if am not allowed to have male friends come and visit me but it doesn't really faze me that's parents for you.

BWB - Have you ever been in love?
ALEXIS - That's a serious question if I am honest with myself I have only been in love 3 times but being with my boyfriend now it was a much different love to what I feel for my boyfriend. I think they was different things about all three guys that I loved about them but I've found all the qualities I was looking for in this man and I have to put that on God.

BWB - How have you balanced you pass relationships and staying focus?
ALEXIS - That's a funny question I must be honest in my past relationship I think I devoted far to much time and energy on them but am older and much wiser now. As long as your focus on the goals you have set yourself and your happy with the choices you have made I would never let a man take that away from me, the way I see it and know it now, your relationship should reinforce that focus and give you strength to complete it like they say behind every strong woman theirs a man being their and being supportive and helping you focus yourself.

BWB - Why did you end with your previous relationship?
ALEXIS - Well my last relationship ended because the trust barrier between us wasn't there, I never trusted him and I didn't believe he was faithful to me, any man who leaves the home you share and doesn't come back in 48 hours and you have been unable to get him on the phone means something and it wasn't like it was a once off thing it happened quite often.
Most not every past relationship has ended because the guy either cheated on me or abused me.

BWB - What kind of guys you go for?
ALEXIS - Well I don't have 1 type of guy I go for its lots of things that can make me attracted to a guy, of cause looks is important but I find some guys who know they really good looking have quite a big head and ego. But making me laugh going out and doing exciting new stuff attracts to me, I don't go for ''Baller's'' ( guys who like to flash they cash ) don't get me wrong having a job and earnings are important but the whole world doesn't need to know how much is in you pocket. Going out and no having to worry that his eye is wondering because he is just focus on me and alone, and not trying to rush me into bed. Sex isn't a major issue for me I would be happy getting once a week, I am not so bothered about it anymore when your younger there is a lot of pressure on girls and when they do give in they get called hoes, or loose, but I personally don't see anything wrong in having fun if your single and the guy is single too, but don't get it twisted it doesn't mean i would be up for one night stands and change guys as often as i change my knickers, that's slightly dirty, your past can always come up and hit you from behind if your not lucky. And that's why I would never date a guy if I didn't think he was marriage material, and I could see it going the distance. And sex can't decide that for you only the person your with can.

BWB - Do you enjoyed to be wined and dined or do you think that’s old fashioned?
ALEXIS - There is nothing wrong with being wined and dined as long as its not only the guy that's doing it, I know guys like to be wined and dined too so ladies should do it too, I think that way you don't get any issues of oh that girl just uses me for my money and vice versa we are living in a 21st century world.

BWB - Honestly, have you found a guy sexy and you just had a one night stand?
ALEXIS - I have once and to be honest with you it was just one of those times when I was really down and needed to be cheered up, I wanted to feel sexy and attractive and too have the control I did it was fun and I don't regret it at all and I really don't see why I should it doesn't make me a bad person, but it wouldn't be something I would rush and do again though.

BWB - How can you tell when a guys nice cause likes you or he just wants to sleep with you?
ALEXIS - That's not hard really all men have different games they play, some are honest and open and tell you I actually prefer them because they isn't any games involved the worst ones are the men, who when they take you out for a drink or dinner and make it out like they paying but when you let them know they won't be getting no ''nookie'' tonight let you know when the bill comes 50/50 right, or you got the guy who is just all over you won't stop kissing you and always trying to touch you up. Then you have the smart ones who don't mind waiting a few weeks ask all the right question say all the right things because they know they gonna get something at the end of it and are the prefect gentleman's then they are gone. If a guy really likes me normally they won't ask me for my number but knows he will see me again, takes the time to get to know me the real me and also opens up about themselves and not ever mentioning sex actually one of my ex's turned me away when I was ready to go that distance with him he said he didn't want to because he wanted to keep untouched and I thought that was really sweet. But nowadays men have to many games and I don't really think you can tell but the ones who are genuine still wants sex with you but that's not all they want.

BWB - What been your biggest mistakes in your life?
ALEXIS - That would have to be losing my virginity I wished I had waited a few more years but that's the decision I made then I have to live with it.

BWB - What’s your biggest fear?
ALEXIS - Dying young and spiders aah I hate spiders a lot.

BWB - What puts a smile on your face?
ALEXIS - Seeing my friends and family happy.